Selfishness

I'm still trying to understand why some people are so selfish. I'm just tired of people hurting someone else, or multiple people, to get what they want, as long as it makes them temporarily happy. I'm tired of being hurt, because people use me as a temporary fix. No one is perfect, and I'm not saying anyone is. I just wish that people would at least try to do something besides breaking others hearts to get what they want.

Not to be? or, Not to be?

So, my sister has been dating, and is now no engaged to a guy that is .....we will say.....creepy. Now, she, and he, have a few learning disabilities, and they have a hard time comprehending things. So as much as we (the family) know that they are not right for each other, we just cant make her understand that. They are %100 positive that they are meant for each other, but we always feel uneasy and creeped out while around him. Not only that, but they are literally joined at the hip now. Which really worries me, because I think there are a lot of control issues in the relationship. We are all worried about her, and we don't want to see her get hurt, but we have tried expressing our concern to her repeatedly, and she always takes offense, and accuses us of judging him. Are we in the wrong? are we being too hard on them? Or should we follow our instinct?

Crazyness!

So, this week has been crazy :) but good. Work has stayed pretty busy, and hectic, but I got to spend alot of time with my family and play with my nephews, Ryan and Ben, the two most adorable boys on the planet!! Until I have my own kids ofcourse :) So, now the week is just about over and I get tomorow off!! yay!!!